Understanding the Other Person's State of Being: 1. What motivates the other person in general? 2. What type of energy (chi/aura/mood) is the other person emitting? 3. What specific intentions does the other person have towards others? 4. What specific intentions does the other person have towards the Querent?
Defining the Relationship Dynamic and Nature of the Strong Reaction: 5. What is the dynamic between the Querent and other person? 6. What is the nature of the Querent's strong reaction to the other person?
Analyzing the Reasons for the Strong Reaction: 7. What it is about the other person that causes the strong reaction from the Querent? 8. How is the Querent contributing to their own strong reaction to the other person?
Releasing the Strong Reaction: 9. What can the Querent learn from their strong reaction to the other person? 10. How can the Querent learn to accept the other person for who they are? (acceptance is not approval)
Repelling the Strong Reaction: 11. What the Querent should be aware of (or watch out for) when dealing with the other person? 12. What can the Querent do to make the situation better for him/herself?